I know. I may not stay here in Kansas though. I like it here and this is where my family is, But I have always been a loner. I may move back to TN on my own. I have never really been on my own. When we got married I was 18 and still living with parents, and now that I 31 I am living with parents and my grandmother. well gotta go and get ready for work. Thanks for the offer.
One key question to each of you, as individuals in a couple/partnership/friendship: If you were to both be under the same roof these days, what do you think it would be like... (a) as a host?, (b) as a guest?, and (c) as a long-term companion once again?. Are they 2 different answers? Are there any red flags still outstanding? Love is not blind, but kind. Is there some issue that makes you uncomfortable, being with your mate, that you feel you two can't directly address? Are there any lingering tendencies toward aggression, bitterness, or other abuse that you see... (a) in yourself?, (b) in your mate? Such abuse be an issue, how would/could you deal with it and still show respect for both you and your friend/partner? Wishing you both success. — I am Q. Bert, after all.